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      <image:caption>Shir Lovett-Graff is a writer and community organizer working at the intersection of religion, spirituality, and justice. By day, they serve as the Executive Director for the Attleboro Area Interfaith Collaborative. They also hold roles in Matir Asurim: Jewish Care Network for Incarcerated People and Yetzirah: A Hearth for Jewish Poetry. They hold a masters in Religion, Ethics and Politics from Harvard Divinity School, and a bachelors in Literature from New College of Florida. Find their full CV here.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>FAQ's - As a ritual creator, officiant, and facilitator, I support people and communities in marking moments that matter. Some of what I have designed:</image:title>
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      <image:title>FAQ's - As a ritual creator, officiant, and facilitator, I support people and communities in marking moments that matter. Some rituals I have designed:</image:title>
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      <image:caption>Calm and confident energy “We are so glad we picked Shir as our officiant. Shir was really helpful in guiding our choices for the ceremony as an interfaith (Jewish and non-religious) couple. They worked with us to make a very personalized ceremony and made sure we were all on the same page before finalizing any steps. During the ceremony, they conveyed a calm and confident energy. We had so many guests tell us what an amazing officiant Shir was – and we agree!” Z + R</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Typically at weddings, the ceremony is a formality guests have to get through so that they can then make their way to the open bar. That wasn’t the case for us. Because we hired Shir, our family and friends are still commenting on our ceremony years later. They say that they don’t normally cry at weddings but that our ceremony was the most meaningful and special service that they have ever been to. The most common phrase we hear: ‘There was not a dry eye in the house.’ Shir took the time to incorporate our own take on spirituality, poems, and rituals with friends and family participation. We cherish our memories of our wedding ceremony which was so special and so “us,” we couldn’t have done it without Shir’s guidance, attentiveness and artistry.” - J + J</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Shir led a ritual that was holding, tender, playful, and serious before a life-changing surgery. It carried me through the preparation, into the operation, and well into recovery afterwards.” -A.D.S.</image:caption>
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